Last week we did a ''Legacy Breakfast''. Our kids actually look forward to this opportunity and they frequently remind us when it is time to do another. I describe a Legacy Breakfast in Chapter six of my book, The Brower Quadrant. The essence of this experience is that as we sit there waiting for our order, we select a family to anonymously pay for their breakfast. Seldom do we see the outcome as we are gone before the intended recipients are given their bill with a ''zero" balance. This family unifying adventure has always been most gratifying as together we discuss who we think would most appreciate this anonymous gesture. Frequently we wonder how this act of gratitude might create ripples that will lap on lives in unknown shores. It is not uncommon for the waiter or waitress who attends us to get quite excited about the process as well. Many times they are active in helping us select the beneficiaries and keeping it a secret. Our waitress had recommended two potential recipients: an older couple and a young family. We couldn't make up our minds, so we paid for both of them with a generous tip for the waitress's help. As we were leaving the restaurant, our waitress hurried to catch us. Her eyes were moist as she sincerely expressed her gratitude. She said times have been especially tough and that the guests acknowledged their gratitude by leaving a greathearted gratuity as well. She concluded with, "Today has been an answer to prayer for many reasons." Many of you, or those you know, have similar experiences. I am always looking for new ways to pay it forward. I don't believe in "giving back"... but that is another blog. I do believe in giving it forward. Your thoughts?





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